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You cannot hate yourself into submission

SELF-LOATHING IS NOT A GOOD CHANGE STRATEGY. There is a popular cultural rhetoric that insists, “if you don’t hate it, you won’t change it.” It relies on the belief that hating something with enough intensity will somehow motivate us to fix it—whether that “thing” is a personality trait, your body, your job, or a relationship.…

Decision fatigue (part 2)

Our previous post discussed what decision fatigue is and how to recognise it in yourself and those around you. We will now explore ways to manage or mitigate decision fatigue.